After coming out of a 9 year relationship I was so unsure about getting back out there and dating or even looking, when I saw the Tv advert about Match.com and felt that this was a great idea- no awkward silences during a conversation and if someone isnt into you(or your nerdy ways) they dont have to wink back.
I joined Match in January 2015 and by some strokeof luck this lovely looking guy checked out my profile, i winked, he winked back,the messages started and then 2 weeks of nightly chat we arranged to meet in a neutral place- my fave pub a few towns over and that chemistry we had by email was there in the real world.
Was I scared to move on from my past? yes, I'm only human, but I'd just met a man who understood and had been through the same thing not just once like me, but several times and he'd picked himself up and was out there just like me.
It'd be corny to say we had an instant connection, but I can live with that beause its exactly how it went and here we both are- 6 months on from that first date. we've met parents, siblings, gone for breaks together and even bigger- both said 'I love you'
our old break ups couldnt feel further away and things couldnt be going any better for us.
yes its early days still at 6 months but I'm not afraid to say that- we took a chance and it paid off more than we could ever have hoped for- thank you match.com he was only the second man i messaged back and he's the boyfriend that I should have had ages ago. well I've got to say goodbye as we're heading off now and once again- thank you Match.com and who ever is reading this- trust in this sight, stay safe and be happy :)